The 3 Types of People in Your Life
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The 3 Types of People in Your Life
You’ve heard the adage: You are the average of the 5 people you spend most time with.
Let’s do a riff on that.
Think of the people you spend the most time with in these contexts:
- Work
- Family
- Socially
Which version of you do they relate to:
- Historical You: Those who cling to an antiquated version of who you once were. They themselves are likely stuck in the past, and don’t want to acknowledge the who you’ve become. Your progress is threatening to them because it means you’re leaving them behind.
- Present Day You: Those who see you as you are today – your current title, marital status, financial status, etc. They are supportive of this version of you. They are comfortable with your progress, as long as it’s not too big, bold or dramatic. Too much change too quickly scares them, also because they fear being left behind.
- Highest Self You: That rare breed of person who sees past your present-day greatness and limitations and only speaks to the most elevated version of who you are, and who you can become.
What Type Do You Surround Yourself With Most?
I reckon our biggest impediment to progress is the percentage of #2’s we carry around (so true on so many levels…).
While the #2’s are well-intentioned, and their support feels comforting…when they become the predominant influence in your life, they can anchor you to your present state. The size and speed of your progress is hindered.
Therefore, your growth is directly correlated to the percentage of people in your life that speak to the Highest Self version of you.
These are the people who stand tall for you even when you’re unwilling to do so for yourself. They are the ones who call you on your BS.
They are the ones who push you beyond what you believe is possible.
It’s because they see YOU.
Not who you were, not who you are now, but YOU.
I Challenge You….
Challenge #1: Take 60 seconds and identify the people in your life who belong in category #3 – those who only relate to the Highest Self version of You.
Challenge #2: Identify a strategy to create one more #3 to each of the contexts – work, family, socially – in your life.
Your Highest Self Awaits.
-DQ
PS – If you want to accelerate your path to your Highest Self, be sure to pre-order my book – Design Your Future: Stop Drifting and Start Living – which is set to hit Amazon in November/December.